Volatile Divorce? We Can Help.
On-line Courses | Weekly Blog | In-Person Events
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On Line Courses
An online course can bring immediate relief when you are overwhelmed.
Not only are you listening to someone who has been through a volatile divorce; but these courses provide action steps and self care tips to help you navigate this time.
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Blog Posts
Our blog posts are for you. When you need understanding, inspiration or comradery, we know these articles can provide a source of support.
Join us as we build our blog, week by week, with content written by those that have been through a tumultuous
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In -Person Events
Our In-Person events provide an opportunity to take our signature Blue Sock course while surrounded by self care options like massage, yoga, guided meditation, scheduled time for journaling and planning.
Divorce can be lonely. Join us, in person & feel the support of others learning to navigate this tough time.
We Are Here To Help When…
…When It feels like the divorce process may never end, When you’re scared, when you don’t know who to trust, when you’ve started doubting yourself, when you just want it to be over,
We will show you how to make the best of a challenging situation, how to ground yourself and how to keep going.
Who do we help?
Individuals in the midst of a volatile and high conflict divorce, and friends and family that are witnessing a loved one face the challenges of a high conflict & volatile divorce.
Our courses, blogs and store (coming soon) were all created with your unique situation in mind. Having survived the ugliness of a high conflict divorce our contributors understand that this type of divorce is “different”.
We provide concrete strategies and practical tips and tools that you can put into action. These help you to stay grounded, manage the roller coaster of high emotions, how to respond not react to ensure you aren’t adding fuel to the fire.
How Do We Help
In addition we address social media, social events, relationships with shared friends and family, maintaining perspective, staying healthy, budget, money and planning for the future.
This isn’t just talk—we provide real tools to help you take control of the things you can and manage the things you can’t.
You’re not alone, and you’ve got this.
Starting Over Can Be Scary.
Learn More About Us and Our Tips To Help You Make The Change.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why Are You Called “Blue Sock” Divorce?
I received a package in the mail at the worst point in my volatile divorce. Inside was a pair of blue socks with a note from my long time dear friend. The note said, “Wear these socks whenever you need to be reminded of who you are. I have a matching pair and will be wearing them in solidarity when you go to court. When you wear them. let it be a reminder of your strength and integrity. You are seen and loved..” That pair of socks became my reminder to hold onto myself. To stay grounded, with my feet firmly on the ground, no matter how stormy things became. I have multiple pairs now and those socks and the symbolism they convey were the motivation and foundation for Blue Sock Divorce. All Blue Sock attendees are encouraged to grab their own pair. I wear them regularly, in solidarity, with all those going through a volatile divorce.
Why Do You Compare Divorce To A Hurricane?
Divorce can range from being agreeable and friendly to devasting and hateful. Not all divorce is the same and the severity varies greatly. Similar to hurricanes, you can predict/guess the trajectory of a divorce. Identifying the category of your divorce can help you prepare and ready yourself. As with the weather - it can change at anytime and surprise you. Preparing, being flexible & knowing there will be some clean up at the end of the storm is a powerful perspective to help you through.
What Is Considered A ‘High Conflict/Volatile Divorce?
Category 4 and 5 are considered high conflict and volatile. The most unpredictable is a category 3. This category can change course at anytime. Sometimes it calms down and dissipates. But sometimes it will intensify and become destructive. Click the link to find out which category your divorce is and what to do about it.
Is This A Legal Seminar? Will I Get Legal Guidance?
No. We are not a legal seminar and no specific legal information will be given. We will cover the big picture, some legal terms, suggestions for picking an attorney, strategies to keep track of legal information and ways to avoid complicating your pending divorce case. Many find it helpful to hear and learn from stories shared by individuals that have navigated the legal system.
